Most baby lists tell you what to buy. Very few tell you how many, and that is the one part you cannot work out on your own. "Some bodysuits" is not a usable answer on a Saturday afternoon in a shop.
Here are concrete quantities, each with the assumption behind it. That assumption matters more than the number: everything below assumes a wash every three or four days. If you run a load daily, take roughly half of all of it.
Clothes
A dozen bodysuits in total, split between short and long sleeves depending on the season. And above all: few in newborn size, more in 1 month. A full-term baby often outgrows newborn in two or three weeks, and unworn newborn clothes are the most common regret of this whole period.
About ten sleepsuits, split the same way. This is the main garment of the early weeks, day and night, and possets and nappy leaks mean changing them two or three times a day. In winter, aim for the top of the range, because drying takes longer.
The rest is much lighter than people expect: three cardigans, five pairs of socks, two hats, eight bibs. Bibs are the item you run out of first, because they save a full change of clothes at every posset.
The quantities, at a glance
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Bodysuits: 12 in total, roughly 5 in newborn and 7 in 1 month
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Sleepsuits: 11, split the same way
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Sleep sacks: 2 at minimum, 3 to never chase the laundry
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Cardigans: 3, a few more for a midwinter birth
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Socks: 5 pairs, they vanish with remarkable consistency
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Hats: 2, whatever the season
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Bibs: 8, up to 10 if your baby brings up a lot of milk
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Size 1 nappies: 2 or 3 packs before the birth, no more
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Muslin squares: 6 at minimum
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Washcloths: 4 or 5, kept for the baby
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Fitted sheets: 4 for a 60 by 120 cot
Nappies, and why not to stockpile
A newborn goes through eight to twelve nappies a day, around 280 across the first month. The figure is striking, and it leads a lot of families into the same mistake: buying a case of a single size.
Many babies move up to size 2 before finishing the size 1 packs, and a nappy that is too small leaks. Two or three packs before the birth is plenty. If you are torn between brands, buy one pack of several rather than a case of one: cuts and sizing vary a lot between makers.
The cot, where the number is zero
This is the one line in this article that is not about comfort. The baby sleeps on their back, on a firm flat mattress cut to the exact size of the cot, with no gap between the mattress and the bars.
No blanket, duvet, pillow, cot bumper or soft toy until age two. The sleep sack replaces all of it, which is exactly what it is for. The guidance comes from ameli.fr and from the French association of ambulatory paediatrics, republished by sante.fr.
It is worth saying plainly, because plenty of baby lists sold in shops still include cot bumpers and full bedding sets. This is not a matter of taste.
What actually moves these numbers
Laundry frequency, first and by a distance. A load a day roughly halves everything. It is the most powerful variable, and the one nobody thinks to check before buying.
Season next, which shifts the balance between short and long sleeves and makes a pramsuit either useful or pointless. Then feeding: for bottle feeding, count on about six bottles, three small and three large. If you are breastfeeding, one or two cover the occasional handover.
One last note on breast pumps, which appear on nearly every shopping list: in France they are rented from a pharmacy on prescription and reimbursed. Buying one new before the birth, without knowing whether you will use it, is rarely the right call.
A number without its assumption is not advice. Twelve bodysuits for a wash every four days, six for a daily wash: that is the same recommendation.
Counting rather than ticking
A checkbox answers a stock question badly. If you own two sleepsuits out of eleven you have done a real part of the work, yet ticking the box says it is finished while leaving it empty says nothing has started.
That is why Bulle counts these tasks instead of ticking them, with a suggested figure you are free to adjust. Gifts, second-hand clothes and a bag of hand-me-downs from a sister arrive out of order, across several months: what is missing is never a list, it is a running total.